Wedding?

a wedding isn’t something we can belittle, really that one event is making such a big fuss. not only one person’s headache, but I think a half population who tasted marriage feel it too. such a pain in the ass, when you talking bout the reservation, the invitation, the catering, the make up. I don’t even know, people still compete to own the biggest, the grandest wedding event ever.

why bother with a gaudy event when the money you could use it to other purpose, not to mention when it ends on a divorce. pathetic isn’t it?

my mother said it’s a bad omen when a girl said no to marriage, truly, I didn’t bother it at all. with all the lack of one’s personalities, a people character.? surely it would go sour with no efforts at all. I’d rather be alone, taking a trip around the world, oh what a dream. but I wonder, will I need some company? what about you?

I’ve already felt what it was like to come home and no one welcomed you. it feels empty, but alone. there’s a double edge here. one side you’ll be comfy to go anywhere alone, but on the other side it was lonely. a "alone on a crowd place" phrase, I'd say out of my place thing. on the other side, you'll be happy when someone beside you. share every pain and happy moments with you. but again, when we and our "partner" has a different point of view. comfort zone'll become a war zone. not only 1 or two messy divorce we faced from time to time.

yeah right, I seems only posting a much more questions than the answers. but all I have is that. isn’t it a common thing to compare our answer, so we can decide what next step. all in all, that’s a very human thing.